The title of my sermon this past Sunday was “Living a Life that Glorifies God.” The
text was 1 Peter 4:7-19. Peter is writing to some first century Christians and
trying to encourage them to live their lives for God’s glory even in the midst
of some very difficult circumstances. There was one verse in particular that
God has challenged me with these past few days. These reflections came to a head
at 4:00 a.m. this morning when I woke up and started pondering verse 8 of 1
Peter 4, “Above all, love each other
deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins” (TNIV). What does it
means to “love each other deeply”? What will be the challenges to keep this a
high value in my life? Why am I up at
4:00 a.m. thinking about this stuff?
Here are some reflections on Peter’s words…
After we have focused on our vertical relationship with God
(1 Peter 4:7), Peter says the very next priority is our horizontal relationships
with others. He writes and says “above all” we should focus on how we
treat others. While we live in a fallen world (i.e., this world is stained by
sin and is not God’s original design), God still has expectations of how we
should treat others. In fact, how we treat others takes second place only
behind our relationship with Him that’s why Peter says it’s “above all.” Maybe that’s why I am awake.
This is important. How I treat either reflects God’s glory or clouds our
perspective of it.
What is clear, even at this hour, is how we treat each other
should be characterized by a self-sacrificing commitment that puts the needs of
others before our own. Peter does not use the word for ‘brotherly love’ here in 1 Peter 4:8 like he does in other places in
his letter (e.g., 1 Peter 1:22; 2:17; 3:8). Instead, he chooses to the word for
‘agape love.’ This is the kind of
love that God has for us, and it this kind of love that God wants us to have
for others.
This takes things up a notch I’d say! We are to love others
the way that God loves us. At least that’s the goal. Peter says, when we love
people this way, we bring glory to God with our lives. That’s a high calling.
Doesn’t God know how people act? Some don’t deserve to be loved this way? When
you are up at 4:00 a.m. you have a crazy thought (or two)…perhaps this is God’s
point all together. I don’t deserve to be loved this way either. Maybe that’s
His design from the beginning…melt harden hearts with love. But really? Do I
have to love others that way? You are God and I am part of this fallen world. I
can’t love others the way you love me.
I didn’t promise answers. I only said this would be some
early, real early morning reflections.
Going to be honest here, these reflections also brought some
early morning fears. Lots of things are scary before I have had some coffee,
but these were the kind of thoughts that kept me from closing my eyes again
even after a 13 hour work day and only 4 hours of sleep. Seems like I am going
to need some courage to love others the way God loves me. If I love people the
way that God loves me then I am going to get taken advantage of and my needs
will go unmet…so say my fears. Doesn’t God care about my needs? I know He does.
If I love this way, doesn’t God know I am going to be doing a lot of forgiving?
I know I will. If I love this way, doesn’t God know I won’t be able to talk to
people the way they talk to me or treat them the way they have treated me? This
isn’t going to be fair.
Perhaps I am getting closer. It wasn’t fair that Jesus had
to die on the cross for my sins, but He did. He did because He loves me not
because it was fair that He had to suffer for my wrongs. Being a sacrifice for
my sin was what I needed and Jesus was willing to pay the price for what I
needed. What? That can’t be right can it? If Jesus loved me sacrificially
because that’s what I needed, and I am supposed to love people the way God
loves me then I too have to love others sacrificially. To be willing to love
them and give them what they need even though they don’t deserve it. Wow.
Loving this way is not going to be easy.
Not only am I supposed to love others sacrificially, Peter
says I am supposed to also love them “deeply.” What new dimension of love could Peter
possibly be adding here? Turns out loving this way isn’t something you can just
wake up in the morning and do. It takes training and effort…lots of it. Sin
always makes it hard to want to love others. Clearly they are sinners, but then
there is the stumbling block of my own selfishness. Wish God didn’t reveal that
to me! To love deeply means to love with all our exertion, fully extended,
exerted to limit of our efforts and capacity. Did I come up that at 4:00 in the
morning? No. That came out of my study for the sermon. Turns out the word “deeply” is used to describe the muscle strain
of horse at full gallop or the taut muscles of an athlete straining for the
finish line. Learning to love others the way the God loves me is going to be a
strain and take much training.
If loving is going to take this much effort, there has to be
a benefit….right? Turns out that Peter is one step ahead of me. Take a look
gain. It’s right in the verse: “Above
all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”
Turns out love covers all wrongs…even mine! That is some good news! It doesn’t
bury them or mask them. It doesn’t pretend they didn’t happen. Love simply doesn’t
see them. God always does, but then He can see us fully and still love us
wholly. We are not so gifted this side of heaven.
When I am angry I do the opposite of being a loving person.
I try to find some fault, magnify it and perhaps even broadcast it to others.
Why would I want to this? Why would anyone? This morning I realized that sometimes
I want to be the victim and relieved of my responsibility to forgive others and
to strive to love them deeply. I don’t want to go through the effort of learning
to love them, forgive them, and not hold their sins against them. This is going
to be more difficult than I ever imagined, but I sure want others to love me
this way, to not see my sinfulness and to love me for who I am. Since I want to
be loved this way by God and you, I better strive to love you in the same way!
It’s going to take great courage and much effort but I am willing.
If it is going to take that much work for me to learn to
love others the way that God loves me then I better pick up the pace of my
training. I have a lot to learn. Why am I up at 4:00 a.m. thinking about this?
I have a long way to go to love you the way God wants me too. So glad I have a
good Coach in Jesus Christ and tremendous playbook in the Bible. Maybe today I
can learn to love just a little bit better. Straining for the finish line!
